I was so incredibly supportive of him and his career. And it was the most miserable and lousy choice I ever made. The church creates massive guilt and shame in children and adults usually through sex related shaming. We get along exceptionally well and I really like him though, so I can see this going somewhere. Yes, those of us in the hospital work longer and harder days than most people with 9 to 5s, but we still have off days. I think she sounds great but she won't be able to not bring it up. Don't wait for it to eventually fall apart or hope that she will change. But, you will probably lose. Long story short, everyone is dead on.
I was thinking the same thing when I read this. He was not a prominent man in the church. This is normal for residents. Funny Nicknames for Guys. I guess I can understand that because his door needs to be locked from the outside and it would be too soon in our relationship to give me a key. She still lives in her hometown though. It is a tradeoff at best.
Sorry ladies, but that's just doesn't cut it for me. My ex called me, I was so surprised, I answered the call and all he said was that he was so sorry for everything that happened, that he wanted me to return to him, that he loves me so much. One of the most well known church prophets stated that he would rather see his own child dead in their coffin than married outside the temple. The Mormon church is certainly a time consuming church. Many Mormon girls place the cart before the horse. If you are married to your best friend, then love him unconditionally, share the struggles, accept the sacrifices and know that if he could, he would rather be with you than with a sick or dying patient. As someone born and raised in the church this has been very difficult to moderate and there is some social pressure to become more involved. I've decided not to mention the CES letter or anything that could be considered "anti-mormon. I believe in temple marriage, and in the importance of those covenants. If your doctor husband says "impossible", ignore him.
We see each other about once every ten days, or times a week at most when his schedule is lighter. For example, the irish, polish and the italians basically intermarried. She's really attractive, too. Posts from people who have your same problem occur on a regular basis here on RFM. If you want him - he is part of a medical school package right now, and likely will be for some time to come. I am no longer the vivacious young girl……life has not been easy. And you know what.
